~why can someone change so fast~

people change over time, this is one thing for sure. but is it OK when it's just two weeks?

it all started weeks ago, friend told me he was close to this girl, a girl who he just got to know for not long. they started to sms, talk and all. he said he know what he was doing is wrong, which i don't what he mean, but eventually he said he was being stupid and carry on doing it. as he said, things went on fine and happy between he and the girl. everyday they sms, talked, had fun, laugh and all. but things started to change since last week. according to him, he don't even know what went wrong till that they girl just stop being close with him.

last few weeks, they would morning massage each other and chat till they sleep at night, but now, non. yes, i really can hear and feel that how upset my friend is, could see that he really put his heart in and treat her with all he got. but out of no where, things started to change into like this. i really don't know how to comfort him. because i kind of understand that kind of feeling. he said he asked her why is all this changes happening, all she said is that she don't know. as days pass by, my friend couldn't take it, so he when and meet her face to face to get thing through and make sure what is going on. he said that she said, she just don't know how to comfort my friend due to some certain things between them. she said that she feel guilty and bad for what had happen. but he already told her that it's not her fault, she don't have to be guilty or feel bad, and he also never intended to blame her, i don't know la, this is what he told me.

but she keeps on thinking that he is blaming her for whatever is happening. no matter how much he explain, she just wouldn't believe. so my friend might just as well end everything that night, said, if she wants things to be like this, wants to keep the distance so be it, but he only will remember all the things she did and bring to him. kind of sad hur...haiz.... but than, today, he come and say, now only he know what the actual reason is, it's because now she is close with another friend of his where they always sms and all....hahahaha, i can feel that kind of pain in my friend and disappointment. i know that it really hurts a lot. tell you one thing but it turns out to be another thing. all i can say is no point getting angry, disappointed and jealous of. if she want's it this way, you also cant do anything about it right.

yes, we can't do anything about it, but if i were my friend, when i realise the actual truth, i can know that type of pain, of how it feels. it's just like stabbing a knive deep down inside the heart. pain that nobody can stand, feeling of pain and wanting to cry. but than, what to do, that's the truth, and nobody can change it right. one thing is that my friend say that he really miss those sweet time together with her and hope that things could go back like last few weeks ago. but the only thing that he don't understand and take it is that all of a sudden things just change like this and she have no feel towards all this changing. well, i can't judge people who i don't know right.

well, now is my time to talk. how can a person just change al of a sudden. it your saying that it already took like one month, than things start to change, thn i can understand. but if like this case, yesterday they were still happily smsing and chatting with each other, than the next thing he now, today he start to get the cold shoulder. is this really suppost to happen? is this how human should be? why can't people just choose to be honest? why must certain people be another person in front of you, and be another person in front of another? hahahah, human mind is really hard to understand. all i can say is, hurt and pain takes time to recover, even i know that you can't let her go, but you can't continue doing it because she already starting to feel annoyed but just that she don't want to tell you. since she is nicely enjoying sms with the other guy and she is happy with it, just let her be if you really love her. as long she is happy, i believe you also will be happy for her...i know that it hurts seeing her everyday like this with the other guy, but you have no choice k, because you love her, that's why you can only bare those pain inside you and not show it out k....put everything to THE END...even if you can't, just let it continue deep inside you and not letting her know...

~take care~